Sometimes we allow our imaginations to run wild, vivid, rapidly and often incorrectly but the truth is not hard to find. I went to Cuba for my 35th birthday. Some didn’t want me to go alone but I craved the adventure. I knew it was what I needed yet I almost paused the trip until others could join me to make certain loved ones feel safe. Lol, I was fine. Why would I rearrange my life to make other people comfortable and inconvenience myself? Water down my birthday based on the limited perspective of others. Silly right but we do it though. We doubt ourselves yet give others the benefit of the doubt all without proper reason. You’re DOPE! Stop doubting yourself. If something does not feel right or when your gut tells you to take the opportunity DO YOU. You’re smart, you know what to do, plus God gave us instincts for a reason. Do you know how far you’ve come and all that you’ve been through? Your intuition led you to great things and out of difficult ones. You are magic! The spirit of discernment is in us and the more we trust ourselves the easier it is to hear and interpret or intuition over our insecurities. God speaks to us through the universe. Get in tune with yourself and tune out the noise. What do you need, what is burning inside you? If the job or relationship is no longer for you get out. Do not betray yourself. It is not easy, but you can do it and you deserve the best. Self-respect is the key. We must be honest with ourselves. Do not hide, heal. You want better so allow better. If you don’t know how find out where to start. Mediocracy is unacceptable. If you want to lose weight, do the work to lose it.  If you like your weight embrace it, no matter what anybody thinks about it. How Do You Feel!?! Keep your promises to yourself. Be loyal to yourself and know what and who is really for you. Don’t go with the flow, live with intent. Be flexible and get what you want out of THIS life. Things that are for you are clear and things that are not for you are even clearer. IT IS WHAT IT IS. Go on that trip, write the book, pay attention and be present. Live THIS Life. Do not sell yourself a dream or buy one other will sell to you, go make a beautiful reality. Be honest with yourself, know what it takes to get what you deserve and Just Do It. Stop cheating yourself. Nobody is responsible for your life except YOU. Please live it being authentically YOU. #SincerelyJamara