Big Homie Rules

Why do adults lie??? Are they scared they may get a whoppin’, put on punishment or something? We all grown right? So, I need your help with understanding this.

How they put you in position when you fake, nigga? – Yo Gotti

Leaders are lying. Lol, LEADERS. That is bananas! Where is the code of ethics? How do dishonest people become the boss? Now I respect privacy, discretion, and I’m far from perfect but honesty is a basic. I’ve been told I’m “Brutally” honest, even mean. Most close to me would disagree. Maybe when I was younger, but I’ve always had good intentions. I’m starting to think honesty is so rare it looks unfamiliar. I don’t do fake, but I am cordial. I don’t let other people determine my mood. I’m fair. Extremely fair. I don’t say everything that crosses my mind. I’m not rude. Maybe I could add sugar or a strawberry on top to my delivery, but I prefer information given to me straight therefore I provide it straight. The chaser just adds more calories, you know what I mean. Any who I’m noticing how unnecessary lying is, but completely unbelievable lies are flowing everywhere. 

Why don’t we welcome honesty?!? Why do we deny ourselves the truth?

I think we should all have a code of conduct or integrity, Big Homie Rules. Things we live by and teach. Something for your legacy to stand on. Maturity. You know the stuff that allows the hard conversations to be had and comprehend. 

The reason why we can grow from life lessons instead of becoming bitter. It’s how we reach our higher self and become great humans that inspire other great humans. Again, I am far from perfect. I strive daily to be better, and I often fail but I’m self-aware. I know my life reflects God and I respect that. Plus, they tell themselves the lie first so they’re betraying their own trust. We deserve better. America deserves better. I’m praying we get better. It starts with ourselves…. #SincerelyJam