J.T.A.Y.💋

I am rekindling a friendship with someone that was once extremely dear to me but we got lost in the shuffle of life, misunderstandings, and lack of communication. During our last chat, she reminded me of one late night, when we were full of life and wine, we created the acronym J.T.A.Y. = Just Thinking About You. She also shared that during the few years that we didn’t speak she often thought of me but simply never reached out. Most people never reach out. That doesn’t mean they love us less or that we haven’t crossed their mind but it does mean that they did not take the time to share. That reminded me of who I am. I do share. Why? Because I want my people to know I am thinking about them. I mail birthday cards and Christmas cards but I haven’t in a while. I go through ups and downs therefore my loved ones might be going through things too. Last night I reclaimed that part of myself and reached out to a few. A couple of them were going through huge things. We motivated each other. We shined a light on thinking bigger, not settling, knowing God is bigger than our battles will ever be, and simply remembering we are DOPE human beings. For others, my love was felt and it reminded them if ever they were going through anything I am here. We need our people and they need us! Keep In Touch, Don’t Be A Stranger, and send someone a #JTAY. #SincerelyJam